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Well, I for one firmly believe the greatness of forums lies in the difference of opinions...that´s what gives a discussion that special spark we all can learn from. We agree to disagree right?
A little bit off-topic ladies... since I´ve become a Nicster in exile and I´m not keeping up to date with Nic news anymore... I´m not aware if Nic has finished the shooting of Drive Angry. If he has... do these pics mean he´s keeping this particular hairdo? Because, ahem, sorry to say I don´t like it... not a bit!
Hi Elaine, I agree with Bon, no need for you to apologize to me, for sharing your thoughts. Nor me for expressing mine. Perhaps my limitation, but it made me feel really uncomfortable.
I differ from your opinion though Bon on it being the same to comment on Nic's work as his personal life...for me, that's definitely not the same. ( feel the same about anyone really not just public figures ) Nothing in this thread was a comment on his work as far as I'm aware.
Truly, I have no idea what would make Nic happy in terms of the way fans discuss him, agree that maybe he'd appreciate honesty about his work, I can imagine though anyone in the public eye would feel the same way any of us would about having their loved ones discussed? I can't say. My view is just my view.
I find it sad that anyone would assume anyone's honest opinion, about Nic's work or life, to be 'politically correct for the sake of being politically correct.' it is implying that people are being insincere about what that actually feel or think...Fortunately for me i can be entirely congruent and just say how i actually feel, because I truly have no idea what happens in Nic's personal life, not speculating or being respectful about that is not something i have to try at. And it's got nothing to do with political correctness! I would feel the same about anyone really. If it is seen as being inauthentic perhaps that's a reflection of the cynical world we live in.
Funny i was having a discussion somewhere else the other day, about how its not cool to be nice any more, and how people see it as being insincere. Seems to be relevant to what you are saying here Bon..kind of like, nice is pretending somehow? Not the case, in my case and I'm sure in the case of many others.
Hmm...Maybe we should just agree to continue to say what we genuinely think and not question the sincerity of it if it's not critical!
just my opinion, no offense to anyone elses.
Lol, you've actually helped me make a decision... not to post a bit of a review about my experience of Knowing ( finally being able to watch movies now such a joy! ) Maybe i'll begin a blog and share it there..i could call it the 'politicallycorrect for the sake of it and I really don't mean anything I say' Nicolas Cage blog!
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Okay, I'm going to jump in here, knowing I'm about to step on some people's toes....but I just read your apology, Elaine, and I just wanted to let you know I don't think it was necessary.
People are entitled to their opinions and they are entitled to voice them as well as long as they are not drag out, knock em' around nasties.....which nothing said here in this thread was.
This forum may be a FAN forum for Nicolas Cage but just because we're fans of his work doesn't mean we have to like everything he does, says, or works on in his life nor do we have to cheerlead anyone he is surrounded by.
Remember folks, the man is a man, he's not a God. He himself has said that as long as he gets a reaction to what he does (positive or negative) he's happy. For that reason I don't think he'd mind it if we speak our thoughts from time to time. Something tells me he would like his fans to be frank and not 'politically correct' for the sheer reason of being 'politically correct'.
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I'm sorry Lula for speaking my mind. I have a tendency to say what's on my mind without first thinking about who it may offend. Always been that way. I didn't mean to offend anyone. Please accept my apology. Won't happen again.
I don't think Alice would be attending functions if Nick didn't want her there. It's nice that he wants his wife by his side, sweet, really. They look happy to be together in the pics I see. I think it's great that he seems to be a happy family man.
I really love the one of him and Alice actually, seems entirely normal they'd be together at this even! Wow, If I'd thought this thread was gonna evoke such judgement speculation and disrespect I'd never have started it, sheesh! Yeah i know this is a discussion forum, freedom of speech and all...and my attitude is to not second guess anyone's personal life and to not put negative spec out there into the world.
I saw some of Nic's speech on youtube Meg ( can't see your link! ) he was so lovely about J.B...and spoke about how he'd been a good friend...and a little about The Rock!
Love and peace y'all.
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I'm not much of a fan of Alice myself but I have to agree/disagree with you on dif points.
I agree that when she IS at a function with Nic, she seems to plant herself smack dab next to him in every pic, almost as if to say "I'm with him! Hands off!".
This penchant has always made me wonder if it's because she is so young and so out of her element....Maybe she's just using him for constant support......ie.....is.....um.... needy? Maybe it makes him feel like a Knight in Shining Armor? Ya know.....marrying her was sorta an act of saving the Damsel in Distress kinda thing from what I've read.
On the other hand, I've noticed that she isn't at alot of the functions he attends and probably stays home with the wee one more often than not.
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I noticed that in the pics of everyone standing together Nic was the tallest. Cruise was probably wearing lifts or standing on a box to come up that tall next to Nic. Ooops....did I just say that? How ungracious! :)
Btw Caz.....great pics that you found!
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It's nice to hear that coz I tried really hard not to make fun of Tom's height.
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Agreed gurl! I cannot stand Tom Cruise. Never have. Nic looks nicely dressed in these pics but he looks so pale/pasty. And does it bother anyone else that Alice is everywhere? I mean I don't have a beef with her. Don't take that the wrong way ok? I know they're married but she's always in the middle of every function. I don't see Katie Holmes there. She let's her man do his thing and come home. Just a thought. Guess it's a bit catty but nonetheless.
Funny how one man can float my boat and the other turn me off so completely. I've never been a Cruise fan............he's never, not even once, done a thing for me. Now the other guy......woooo hoooo baby......10 years and my admiration and ahem.....lust....for him still stirs my loins! LOL!
"No discussion -- no deals." - Face/Off Script. "You are what you love, not what loves you." - Adaptation. SAY IT LOUD - I'M A NICAHOLIC AND I'M PROUD XD!!!