I have to say that we may misunderstood to each other. And it is my fault. My prophase reply is not rigorous enough.. Do not hate others for what you can not have, for maybe its that hateful way you have..maybe that is the reason you can not have what others have." The reason for me to quote this sentence ( your signature ) is just want to translate it in Chinese.(Defeat to demonstrate
in this forum)(just a fun),It has no relation to you and your baby ,actually. And my complete reply for you just one sentence maybe,your boy needs more freedom!
AND sorry again! Iv never use such a word like hate to describe affinity.
Do not hate others for what you can not have, for maybe its that hateful way you have..maybe that is the reason you can not have what others have." This sentence in chinese" maybe,your boy needs more freedom!
Um..me hateful? And of my child? I don't think so. But then again, I do not think you realized how this would come across and maybe had a misunderstanding right?
Thinking positive, CSG
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"Do not hate others for what you can not have, for maybe its that hateful way you have..maybe that is the reason you can not have what others have."
Do not hate others for what you can not have, for maybe its that hateful way you have..maybe that is the reason you can not have what others have." This sentence in chinese" maybe,your boy needs more freedom!
You sound like a wonderful mother! It must be amazing to know your child is growing up and already 15.
It is both Wonderful and scary/tragic at the the same time, LOL. I will always hold him dear and the child he was in my memories, but the future he has to endure as a young man, the way this world has changed...well lets think positive shall we? And thanks for the comment PL!
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"Do not hate others for what you can not have, for maybe its that hateful way you have..maybe that is the reason you can not have what others have."
Willow, You will notice that I posted this in the MEMBERS CHIT CHAT section, where not every topic has to be about our lovely Nicolas. Have wonderful day!
Darcy
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"Do not hate others for what you can not have, for maybe its that hateful way you have..maybe that is the reason you can not have what others have."
My son, Cody turns 15 this Saturday and I am both happy and sad. He is now almost 5'7 and 140 pounds. Girls are the main focus and he now spends his $$ on them or clothes. Gone is the time where his whole world revolved around Mom and when I was his superhero. LOL. Now getting him to take time and hang out with me is like pulling teeth and heaven forbid I hug him in public or gasp, fix his hair in public!!
I am trying to think of some things to get him for his Birthday other than $$ and clothes. Years ago I wrote him a poem about how much I love him. In the poem I used the phrase that I always tell him everytime we talk on the phone, right before I hang up. "Cody-Boy, do you know how bright my love is for you?" No Momma, how much?" So much Cody-boy, that the stars and the moon pale in comparison!". Cody-Boy, do you know how wide my love is for you?" No Momma, how wide? "So wide that FIVE galexies could not contain it!". I think I am going to put that poem on a nice plaque with a picture of us when was just a baby. What think? Sappy I know, but I like it.
Other than that, I got nothing. So I am going to let him decide what we are going to do this weekend and what he wants for gifts. Hopefully the clear weather holds up, even though its so friggin hot (105!). Ugh...I hate heat like this, really do!
But again, Mom here is still going thru nostalgic moments, and poor kid..he will have to put up with me hugging him all teary eyed and breaking out the baby pictures. LOL. He is the only child I have and its hard to let him go, even though I am so proud of him and I know this can not be avoided. *sighs*
If ya'll have an idea or two, feel free to let me know as I would LOVE some suggestions!! Other than that, not much going on in my life right now. My guy is back from his two week work deal he was on, my health is ok, except for my back going on the fritz really really bad this week. I do have a fellow Soldier and friend of mine in the ICU and I am pretty bummed out for her. She has a bone disease that is really starting to take its toll and earlier in the week she had a really bad seizure episode and wound up in the ICU. We had thought she would only be there for twenty-four hours, but this is the third day and they are trying to stabilize her enough so she can make the trip to Houston for better treatment. Her Mother, Aunt and brother came in and I have been trying to be available for them if they need anything. For her Mom, who has cancer and is undergoing Chemo herself, sometimes its just a hug and a shoulder to cry on.
Ok sacks of potatoes and balls of cheese's, I need to get a crack-a-lackin on cleaning the house before leaving tomorrow. Ya'll take care and have fun. Remember, be kind and rewind. LOL.
Hugs and sloppy kisses,
Darcy
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"Do not hate others for what you can not have, for maybe its that hateful way you have..maybe that is the reason you can not have what others have."
I think I am going to put that poem on a nice plaque with a picture of us when was just a baby. What think? Sappy I know, but I like it. 
